Title: Late-time X-ray observations of tidal disruption flares: the relation between the optical and X-ray emission and prospects for BH spin measurements Abstract: Many tidal disruption events (TDEs) are currently discovered by optical transient surveys and this number is expected to grow. Similarly, the eROSITA satellite is expected to discover many TDEs in X-rays. The origin of the optical emission and why some TDEs are bright in optical, or optical and X-rays, whereas others are found only in X-rays or optical remains unknown. The optical light could be caused by reprocessing of X-ray emission from a compact accretion disk. Or alternatively, the optical emission could be powered by the kinetic energy of the stellar debris streams liberated in inter-stream shocks. Late-time observations will help to address these questions, because after a few years our view to the accretion disk should be un-obscured. Our late-time Chandra X-ray detections of several TDEs that went undetected in X-rays during the initial optical flares corroborate the picture of the late time presence of an accretion disk suggested by van Velzen et al. 2019. Late-time X-ray observations of TDEs opens the possibility for detailed modeling of the soft X-ray emission as thermal disc emission allow us to determine the SMBH spin. Furthermore, we will discuss the scenario we proposed where typically the X-ray bright phase follows the optical bright phase. This suggested picture can be checked using future optical and X-ray survey data.